Fingering.?

i finger myself daily but when my boyfriend does it he approaching twist it & stuff too how its supposed too be aware of good but i maintain getting swore what can i do too make it not bring in me swore
thanks.Fingering.?
He's too rough and he's too inexperienced to know it. Porn other shows the guys being rough...most porn is made for guys. They don't return with that you can get a woman much more excited by person gentle and slow. It's up to you school him so he'll grow up to be a real lover and not newly a horny young boy.
okay if it hurts you can show him how to do it
or you can have him use vaciline. also k y warm gel is good
Tell him to use smaller quantity fingers, or twist it slowly. Show him what you resembling, and what is not going to make you sore.
Use lube, or don't try it until your really turned on. Try doing it on yourself more and work out what techniqure feel the best, then pass by the information on to your boyfriend.
Um.. try lube .
Tell your boyfriend that 'twist and stuff' is a turn-off, not a turn-on. You should not be sore - a tiny bit tender maybe.
Tell him what you do and don't approaching. Be direct, but not bossy.
If something hurts, you need a 'stop immediately' signal.[ say aloud red light, etc. ] Say 'I similar to it when you ...' instead of 'I hate that!'
Try to be encouraging.
Good luck!
try some LUBRICATION